Imagine a circle of women of all ages gathered
to honor a young maiden as she enters her season of monthly bleeding.
She sits on a decorated chair, fresh as the morning’s dew and innocent
as a spring flower. Her grand aunt comes forward to offer her a
delicate silver necklace. She tells how her mother had given this to
her just before she died. Tears flow down the cheeks of everyone there
as the young maiden’s mother steps forward to read a poem she wrote for
her daughter.
Woman after woman tells the young maiden the joys of being a woman, the
inner resources she carries to meet any challenge, and the strength of
the sisterhood to support her when needed. They reflect her beauty and
empower her journey. At the end of the ceremony, the women are jubilant
and pour into the kitchen where a proud father has prepared a delicious
meal.
Imagine a grandfather, just
turned sixty, surrounded in the sweat lodge by his wife of thirty-five
years, his children and grandchildren, neighbors and friends. Their
prayers are a litany acknowledging how this man has touched their
lives. They thank him for how he protected them, provided for them, and
guided them on their journeys. They honor him for how he continues to
inspire them. They pray for his well-being as he steps into being an
elder within his family and community. Next, it is the elder’s turn to
speak and he shares how he learned to become the man he now is. He
receives an “elder name” and is forever lifted up to a wholly other
level of being human.
Imagine a circle of young adults
in their early thirties gathered around a mesa containing reflections
of the five archetypes: lover, hero, warrior, king/queen and
priest/priestess. They sit across from each other, woman reflecting to
man, man reflecting to woman the stories of their life experience.
Deeply listening to each other, they share moments of being utterly
natural and uniquely individual. Each reflection builds self-acceptance
and self-appreciation. At the end, they walk out into their lives
strong in their inner knowing of self-worth. They enter the most
productive years of their lives with confidence and courage.
The rites of passage are precious beyond compare.
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